You are not owed anything...ever. Sorry.
Even when you work as hard as you possibly can in this life, you are not guaranteed victory or success BUT you ARE guaranteed growth! There is positivity and opportunity in everything that happens in our lives...it is up to us to turn these happenings into good momentum to attack tomorrow rather than wallowing around in today.
Every day, every event is what you make of it...always strive to make it the best thing possible for yourself AND for others.